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Kimberly Clay

You are not the average woman. The world is about to find that out. You’ve got something to do, something to prove, something to say.


Hi. My name is Kimberly, and I’m willing to bet that for far too long you’ve felt constrained by a world that is too ordinary or average or mediocre, and you are anything but that!

For years you’ve lived a “normal” life as either the doting wife, understanding sister, dutiful soccer mom, or dependable employee.

But there was always something different about you…something on the inside just dying to get out (often showing up in small ways…how you wear your hair, your clothes, your makeup, decorate your living space or do your job).

At times you’ve probably felt like the square peg trying to fit in the round hole, or maybe you felt compelled to make yourself “small” to fit into a social environment that was not ready or willing to accommodate you.

And now you’re in a world telling you you’re past your prime (meaning anyone over the age of 25 or 30!); too old to be of consequence, no longer relevant.

How insanely ridiculous is that!!

If you’ve ever felt trapped inside a life composed of mindless routines…

If you’ve ever thought “There has to be more to this. I always planned on more than this…”

If you’ve ever examined your life and wondered “How in the world did I end up here?”

If suddenly (or not so suddenly) you find yourself wanting to do things differently, better, more purposefully, more thoughtfully…

If you want a life filled with new and different experiences, more meaningful, full…

If you feel you’ve not yet lived to your full potential…

Then you’ve landed in the right place. This blog is written especially for you.

Change is coming. Why? Because you’re about to change your mind.

In fact, it’s already happening. You have much more to be, to give, to say!

You’re ready to be AUTHENTIC, make a DIFFERENCE. You’re ready for CHANGE! That’s why you’re here. Woohoo!

And now comes the hard part because…


Welcome to WhatSheSay.com! Grab your favorite coffee, tea, or spritzer, pull up a comfortable chair and stay a while. I’m so happy that you’re here.

What is WhatSheSay.com?

WhatSheSay.com is a lifestyle blog that supports women like you who desire to become the best version of themselves.

The idea behind the blog is that we have what it takes to create better lives, but we lack knowledge or resources to create the lives we want.

This blog is about giving you an opportunity to examine yourself, your life and the choices you make, and challenge yourself to do the things that transform you, make you happier, enrich your life, and allow you to demonstrate more of your authentic self daily.

WSS promotes intentional and purposeful living, financial intelligence, the creation of an environment that allows you the freedom to be and do what you envision, and lifelong learning.

It is an environment and community created to support women like you who want to live happier, more fulfilled, more purposeful and more authentic lives.

Why Read WhatSheSay.com?

You have a gazillion choices of where to spend your time on the internet. There are now literally millions of websites and blogs available to you.

And while there are many good blogs, not every blog is worth your time and attention.

So why should you read WhatSheSay.com?

To be perfectly blunt,  at WSS, we “get” you.

  1. There’s more to life than being a mommy (although that’s a REALLY important job!).
  2. You have interests that go beyond developing the largest collection of recipes that ever existed in the history of womankind.

There. I said it.

Although women of a broad spectrum may relate to and (hopefully) enjoy WhatSheSay.com, this blog is created specifically for “women of a certain age” who are interested in developing the best version of themselves.

At WSS, we want to inspire, encourage, inform and support you in your efforts to “be” better. We want you to:

  • Learn more about yourself, so that you can create the life you want and be the person you desire, no matter what your age.
  • Get the information and help you need to be successful however you choose to define success.
  • Become a part of a community that understands you because we are you.

That’s all.

“Remember not the former things,
nor consider the things of old.
Behold, I am doing a new thing;
now it springs forth, do you not perceive it?
I will make a way in the wilderness
and rivers in the desert.” Isaiah 43:18-19

Want to know more? Keep reading…

About Me

Kimberly ClayHi. I’m Kimberly Clay, an entrepreneur, writer, and the founder, editor, and CEO of WhatSheSay.com.

I’m also a woman in the process of reinventing, restructuring and redefining her life.

A few years ago I found myself in a difficult situation.

I was stressed out, totally exhausted, running on empty and I just couldn’t manage my life in the same way anymore.

I had to make a decision.

I could continue with things as they were, pretending everything in my life was alright and that I was managing it all and in control (which meant I was probably soon to lose my mind), OR I could just let go and see what happened.

I let go.

At the time, it felt as if a bomb exploded in my life and I was left standing at ground zero.

For the very first time that I could ever recall, I didn’t know what to do, which direction to go in, or which end was up.

Things fell apart, but the world didn’t end.

And while things were messy for a while, the situation was never without hope.

Very slowly, I began the process of making my way back…not to where I was, but to where I want to be; to the life I want to live and the person I want to be authentically.

I am still in that process, have many challenges to overcome and a ways to go to get where I’m going, but every day I make progress.

And that’s something to celebrate.

You have your own journey. That’s what’s brought you here.

I’d love to share it with you, to be a source of encouragement, insight and information to help get you to the place you want to be.

If you’re still breathing, then it’s not too late to start over or embark on something new.

And, if you’re beginning a process to redesign your life, don’t worry, you’re not alone.

Spend some time exploring WhatSheSay.com. This blog is designed to help you on the road to becoming your best self.

If you’re interested in becoming part of the What She Say community, please take a moment to fill in the form below. We’ll send you information from time to time, and explore how we can be of help. I’d love to hear from you!


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